One of the things destructive for normal relations between partners is over-directed review one another.
Criticism can be about anything, about what your partner is doing, what he thinks about his feelings, his desires, his movements, how he dresses or talks, what he says and how much more.
It should be emphasized pre-qualify the things that each of us can find himself in one form or another, while reading the article, once the visitor once controlled, but the question is often the criticism, which meant that, expressed how she told the context of marital relationship quality . This article applies, in particular, criticism between partners (both men and women), a fixed behavioral pattern existing in the marital relationship, which appears frequently intended to scold, blame, give orders and gain control over their partner.
Such critical following consistently and frequent during the current daily life includes, in fact, the whole essence and sense of existence of the partner and aspires to change it. There is constant criticism by taking over the world experience of the partner’s mind and set him who he is and how it will behave in accordance with the wishes and needs of the partner’s personal critical.
Critical partner sees as the only successful way, just right and does not see the possibility of other ways that other, equally successful, but different, to observe, behavior, thinking and so on. Any deviation of the way, as he sees it correctly, brings almost Immediate criticism, anger, guilt and judicial.
Constant criticism, even on small things, running a regular partner reported that he as a human being “wrong” and he needs to change to be someone else. He understands that the spouse does not accept it as it is causing him severe feelings of rejection, helplessness, hurt and vulnerable, loneliness, frustration, anger, lack of value and meaning, despair and insecurity.
Critical permanent and ongoing attempts to gain control over your partner’s world slowly permeates his soul, and a slow, gradual and sometimes, though hidden, it destroys the soul.
Controlled partner experienced the criticism directed at him as an attack on his self permanent, which even if he tries to please his partner, he can not succeed because this is an impossible task for him because he can not really change who he is. He can change certain behaviors here and there but not the essence of his inner world and not the qualities and personality.
You may contact even when only one partner is very critical and the other is trying to please him, but there is also the possibility that both partners continually visit each other. In either case review affects intimacy between the couple, keeping them from each other and can cause many arguments and disputes between the couple that cause alienation between them and refraining from verbal and physical affection, and, from sexual intercourse.
Continuous and constant criticism sends a message to a regular partner, even if not in words clearly, “I’m good and successful than you”, “I know better what is right and what should”, “One way is to have my way,” I assert, “You as well as I do so, you should listen to me “and so forth
A partner is a person there at the top of his personal priorities the issue of intimacy, romance and sacrifice of his spouse. In other words, a marriage meant to him much more than family. Before the human family the couple would prefer to find the right partner, perfect suitable – that which has warm feelings, love, romantic attraction to a strong sense of integrity. Without this sense – it would be very difficult to start a family and have children.
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Many years of debate exists regarding the nature of man in terms of a fixed relationship. Some say that man is a polygamous (Recall – polygamy), sexual freedom he needs and he can not live naturally and faithfully all his life partnership with another person – that is, he is unable to be monogamous (Recall – monogamy), some say otherwise.